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Friday, July 18, 2008

Friends ,Loyal or Fake?

You know lately i decided to evaluate some of my friends and found out that not all mean you good. Now there are some that are truly there for you but to find a genuine friend is really rare. Now a days friends constantly back stab one another and never like to see each other excel. Its amazing why waste time getting to know some one if you don't truly care about them. WHATS THE POINT of going through the motions ??????? I think to call someone a friend is a title that should be used very discretely and not just given to some one who shared there lunch with you.

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

i completley agree. i gave up on that scene a long time ago. I reevaluated everyone i was hanging out with and realized that they didnt mean any good to me.

Helping Hand said...

i believe that every one goes through some good ones and some bad ones and though its tough , its those experiences that actually make us into a wiser and ultimatley a better person.

Anonymous said...

some of the people that i used to hang around with were 2 faced and backstabbers so i changed who i was friends with but now i look like the bitch for falling out with so many people

Helping Hand said...

well you know feelthebeat some times you have to risk what people has got to think about you to be content. Dont worry about what people think becuase they won't be there when you get hurt due to a bad friendship. Do what make you happy

Khalid said...

I'm not the kind of person to talk to just anyone. It takes a lot of time for me to really start to get to know someone. So when I pick a friend, I pick the right friend, Although there is the occasional bad apple. This makes it especially difficult for me to get over it when I'm hurt by one of them because it took me all my guts to open myself up to them in the first place.
There was one situation which left me in pretty bad shape, after which I became even more caution, even paranoid, about making friends, and only talked to people whom I knew would never harm me. It's worked out fine, but I wish I were a little more easy going about the whole thing.

Helping Hand said...

well khalid i understand what your talking about. I myslef was betrayed by a friend of many years and it left me really hurt and trust was an issue for me. Eventually i got over it and slowly learned to turst agian . Someone will come along and be a true friend but, u have to give them a chance. You don't want a real one to come along and you miss a chance.